Is your relationship making you unhappy?
Everyone deserves a healthy, loving relationship but sometimes things go wrong. Despite our best intentions, 50% of long-term relationships and marriages still fail.
You don’t have to give up on the relationship you wanted
If your relationship is in trouble, you are not alone.
What most of us want, is to feel the same way we did at the very start of our relationship.
Four Things That
Cause A Relationship Breakdown
- Ignoring, silence “cold treatment”
Four Things That
Make A Relationship Succeed
- Shared Meanings
Most couples don’t know how to move from the situation they are in, to the place they want to be.
Changing our behaviour can transform our relationship
We all deserve a healthy relationship.
With the right guidance and support, you can turn destructive habits around and gain the partnership you want. Learning to disagree without contempt, discuss without defensiveness, to negotiate without control and to listen with an open mind are the corners stones of a loving and successful relationship.
When we see each other in a positive light feelings of love are restored and our future becomes happier and more secure.
Ask yourself this:
“If you could create the relationship you want, would you do it”?
Few of us want a relationship to end. What we really want is to understand what went wrong and how we can feel loved, emotionally secure and happy again.
Together, we can create a healthy, loving relationship
Through relationship coaching and mentoring support, we will focus on the unique dynamics in your relationship and look at what is really going on. You will gain the confidence and clarity to decide if staying together is the right choice, and the skills to create a close and loving relationship.
After working with me, 96% of couples have turned their relationships around and are still together.
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Ms Hylton-Smith on November 13, 2017 at 10:07:09 As someone who has experienced quite a bit of trauma, I've tried lots of therapies. All of them have had value for me, but my work with Debbie stands head and shoulders above the rest in terms of the outcomes for my daily life. Not only do I have practical tools for regulating my emotional responses, but I have greater understanding of myself and a deep feeling of peace and stability that's not dependent on the external circumstances of my life. I can't recommend her work highly enough. Lee Hayward CEO on November 07, 2017 at 10:03:21 There are rare times when you come across people who have a knowing, a deep understanding about human nature. This knowing comes from solid knowledge, dedicated training and many years of human interaction. Combined with the right amount of empathy, the right amount of compassion and the ability to tell you how it is too. I came across such a person, her name is Debbie Banks. Sarah Banbury on November 06, 2017 at 20:09:16 I found Debbie to be a marvellous practitioner. She was realistic and practical as well as being mindful. I still use the mindful exercise’s Debbie sent me and I have recommended her several times to friends.
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“The coaching my wife and I received from day one from Debbie was life changing!”
Debbie was able to assist us both to reconnect and “Tango” our way through our hectic life with two small children. For me, the three days we spent away in the retreat were pivotal in helping my wife, and I self-reflect on our own “characters” and gave us the tools to become once again, a supportive and passionate couple.
Debbie is a fantastic listener who never judges or blames but helped us remember why we fell in love and focused us on what is important to us both. Also, I have used Debbie’s many techniques to de-pressure following challenging days as a Police Sergeant, and also along my promotion process, which thanks to Debbie resulted in me being promoted to Inspector recently.”