Is your relationship making you unhappy?
Everyone deserves a healthy, loving relationship but sometimes things go wrong. Despite our best intentions, 50% of long-term relationships and marriages still fail.
You don’t have to give up on the relationship you wanted
If your relationship is in trouble, you are not alone.
Life is complicated, which means there are many opportunities for our relationship to get into difficulty. Some issues can be hard to deal with and eventually a relationship can reach crisis point. And when things do go wrong, it can seem impossible to identify or solve problems.
You may have already considered a costly separation or divorce, but unresolved issues don’t disappear. The emotional pain of separation can last a long time.
What most of us want, is to feel the same way we did at the very start of our relationship.
Four Things That
Cause A Relationship Breakdown
- Ignoring, silence “cold treatment”
Four Things That
Make A Relationship Succeed
- Shared Meanings
Most couples don’t know how to move from the situation they are in, to the place they want to be.
Changing our behaviour can transform our relationship
We all deserve a healthy relationship.
With the right guidance and support, you can turn destructive habits around and gain the partnership you want. Learning to disagree without contempt, discuss without defensiveness, to negotiate without control and to listen with an open mind are the corners stones of a loving and successful relationship.
When we see each other in a positive light feelings of love are restored and our future becomes happier and more secure.
Ask yourself this:
“If you could create the relationship you want, would you do it”?
Few of us want a relationship to end. What we really want is to understand what went wrong and how we can feel loved, emotionally secure and happy again.
Together, we can create a healthy, loving relationship
Through relationship coaching and mentoring support, we will focus on the unique dynamics in your relationship and look at what is really going on. You will gain the confidence and clarity to decide if staying together is the right choice, and the skills to create a close and loving relationship.
After working with me, 96% of couples have turned their relationships around and are still together.
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JW on May 14, 2018 at 12:46:34 I cannot thank Debbie enough for the support she has given me. Debbie is highly skilled and has an equal amount of compassion and understanding. She showed the same level of professionalism and kindness from her first phone call through to our last session and follow up message. I was not at my best in the week leading to taking my flight to meet Debbie but a previous client of hers was able to convince me that I would never regret taking that flight. I am now so glad that I did as I feel like with the guidance Debbie has given me I have been able to turn my life around. I have significantly reduced my anxiety levels, and I have been shown strategies and new ways of thinking that I will use into the future. My advice is take the plunge, trust Debbie and put the effort in, you wont regret it. Jo on May 04, 2018 at 12:52:52 Our daughter had experienced a traumatic incident and was suffering mentally and physically as a result. There was such a long wait for NHS services we decided to seek Debbies help. Debbie taught my daughter skills in the first session that supported her to be less anxious and following the full Integrated Eye Movement treatment, she was able to sleep without nightmares and was experiencing less distress. Debbie's wisdom , experience and compassion supported us all and I will always be grateful to Debbie for the work she has done. Our daughter is now thriving ! It is a very special thing to be able to help someone so much it turns their life around and that is what Debbie has done for us all but namely our daughter. Sw on March 29, 2018 at 19:00:23 I had an initial telephone consultation with Debbie which put me at ease within minutes.
We discussed my problem and agreed an appointment.
Basically, Debbie is a therapist that once you meet you just know you’ve made the right choice. Everything is explained to you before the “magic” happens. Her style is absolutely unique and totally thorough, as she and you explore, create, access and find solutions to your personal challenge.
I had a few sessions with Debbie, her manner and willingness to help me knows absolutely no boundaries.
I’m now back to my normal self, living life to the full without any burdens of my past.
I can recommend Debbie unreservedly as she has changed my life for the positive 100%.
4.9 out of 5 stars (24 ratings)
Debbie Banks Reviews
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“The coaching my wife and I received from day one from Debbie was life changing!”
Debbie was able to assist us both to reconnect and “Tango” our way through our hectic life with two small children. For me, the three days we spent away in the retreat were pivotal in helping my wife, and I self-reflect on our own “characters” and gave us the tools to become once again, a supportive and passionate couple.
Debbie is a fantastic listener who never judges or blames but helped us remember why we fell in love and focused us on what is important to us both. Also, I have used Debbie’s many techniques to de-pressure following challenging days as a Police Sergeant, and also along my promotion process, which thanks to Debbie resulted in me being promoted to Inspector recently.”