Is your relationship making you unhappy?
Everyone deserves a healthy, loving relationship but sometimes things go wrong. Despite our best intentions, 50% of long-term relationships and marriages still fail.
You don’t have to give up on the relationship you wanted
If your relationship is in trouble, you are not alone.
Life is complicated, which means there are many opportunities for our relationship to get into difficulty. Some issues can be hard to deal with and eventually a relationship can reach crisis point. And when things do go wrong, it can seem impossible to identify or solve problems.
You may have already considered a costly separation or divorce, but unresolved issues don’t disappear. The emotional pain of separation can last a long time.
What most of us want, is to feel the same way we did at the very start of our relationship.
Four Things That
Cause A Relationship Breakdown
- Ignoring, silence “cold treatment”
Four Things That
Make A Relationship Succeed
- Shared Meanings
Most couples don’t know how to move from the situation they are in, to the place they want to be.
Changing our behaviour can transform our relationship
We all deserve a healthy relationship.
With the right guidance and support, you can turn destructive habits around and gain the partnership you want. Learning to disagree without contempt, discuss without defensiveness, to negotiate without control and to listen with an open mind are the corners stones of a loving and successful relationship.
When we see each other in a positive light feelings of love are restored and our future becomes happier and more secure.
Ask yourself this:
“If you could create the relationship you want, would you do it”?
Few of us want a relationship to end. What we really want is to understand what went wrong and how we can feel loved, emotionally secure and happy again.
Together, we can create a healthy, loving relationship
Through relationship coaching and mentoring support, we will focus on the unique dynamics in your relationship and look at what is really going on. You will gain the confidence and clarity to decide if staying together is the right choice, and the skills to create a close and loving relationship.
After working with me, 96% of couples have turned their relationships around and are still together.
4.9 out of 5 stars (22 ratings) Debbie Banks Reviews Powered by Trusted Practitioner Verified Client Verified Client Verified Client
Sw on March 29, 2018 at 19:00:23 I had an initial telephone consultation with Debbie which put me at ease within minutes.
We discussed my problem and agreed an appointment.
Basically, Debbie is a therapist that once you meet you just know you’ve made the right choice. Everything is explained to you before the “magic” happens. Her style is absolutely unique and totally thorough, as she and you explore, create, access and find solutions to your personal challenge.
I had a few sessions with Debbie, her manner and willingness to help me knows absolutely no boundaries.
I’m now back to my normal self, living life to the full without any burdens of my past.
I can recommend Debbie unreservedly as she has changed my life for the positive 100%.
SW. Verified Client on March 18, 2018 at 14:50:25 I consulted Debbie when I was suffering from a chronic eye problem which kick-started me into taking a step back and evaluating my life, a mid-life crisis I suppose. She was incredibly intuitive, knowing exactly what was going on with me and what to do about it, this gave me great faith in her and her techniques. Debbie gave me some strategies and different techniques to work on myself that gave me the bricks to re-build my life. I very soon took back control of my life, my eye problem healed up over a matter of three days (after nine weeks of suffering). I felt like a new person, I was now back in a place to continue my life with a fresh and positive outlook. Thank you so much Debbie! LucyRose on March 08, 2018 at 23:19:46 Thankyou Debbie our session was incredible, I feel so much lighter and energised almost excited about the changes that are possible in my life . I have benefitted so much and am feeling far more connected and integrated since our first session. Having CPTSD is not fun at the best of times but our work together is helping me so much , Thankyou 😊
My first 4 sessions with Debbie have been incredible, I have a much deeper sense of belonging, trust and stability which is life changing for me. This has resulted in far more balance,connection and greater ability to feel Joy and fun in my life . All of this has helped me feel better physically too , Thankyou once again I cannot wait to see how much more improvement the next 4 sessions brings xx
4.9 out of 5 stars (22 ratings)
Debbie Banks Reviews
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“The coaching my wife and I received from day one from Debbie was life changing!”
Debbie was able to assist us both to reconnect and “Tango” our way through our hectic life with two small children. For me, the three days we spent away in the retreat were pivotal in helping my wife, and I self-reflect on our own “characters” and gave us the tools to become once again, a supportive and passionate couple.
Debbie is a fantastic listener who never judges or blames but helped us remember why we fell in love and focused us on what is important to us both. Also, I have used Debbie’s many techniques to de-pressure following challenging days as a Police Sergeant, and also along my promotion process, which thanks to Debbie resulted in me being promoted to Inspector recently.”